Tantric massage is the same, despite what the masseuse is doing to your body, your mind should be focused on your breathing only. This is why if you want to get really good at tantric love making with your partner having a tantric massage is an excellent way to prepare for this.
There are of course many reasons to do love making in a tantra style whether it is for meditation, spiritual purposes, health reasons or because you want to make your partner very happy.
However, the ultimate purpose is to achieve a higher state of consciousness by having your mind focused on the important things in life.
Resources –
If you are interested in learning more about tantric love making then we suggest you check out the following resources –
Online articles:
https://www.cosmopolitan.com/tantric-sex-positions
Books:
Tantric Sex For Men : Making Love A Meditation by Diana Richardson
Tantric Sex And Love Making by Nitya Lacroix