There are a number of key values that are required to be empathetic. When the values are used in massage therapy the relationship between client and masseuse becomes more effective and beneficial.
Sensitivity
Being sensitive to the feelings of others enables effective communication and a deeper understanding of the other person’s needs. Sensitivity also extends the sense of ‘knowing’.
Listening
To deliver an effective and beneficial massage treatment it is important to use active listening skills. Engaging in open communication enables the emphatic masseuse to validate and confirm what she is ‘feeling’ from the client.
Appreciation
The showing of appreciation, through sensitive touch, can demonstrate empathy and make the receiver feel valued. This level of understanding of the mind, body and spirit enhances all massage practice.
Perfect Balance
Whilst empathy is an important tool, and a helpful dimension in a massage practice, professional therapists must also remain professionally detached. The balance between the two enables a masseuse to provide a more effective treatment and service for every client.